Wednesday, August 21, 2013

The Fish Farm

Alina has been doing a lot of circles and meals with the medium girls this week.  She has acclimated well with them, after having a slight break-down the first week when they all swarmed her and spoke quickly in Spanish and had been avoiding them.  I have sent her with the medium girls from time to time (sometimes, at first, against her will)...but it's paid off!  Last night she spent the night in the medium girls' house...a sort of sleep-over!  I did make sure with the night lady that it'd be okay.

Today's my last day of classes!  The last class of the day was cancelled by the teacher, due to the 6th graders taking a quiz during that time.  I returned all of the books, notes and preparations I had done to Amy over at the high school.  We've been doing laundry all day, especially since Alina & I will be leaving most of our clothing here.  She's sending hers with Zue (the one in charge of the older medium girls), and I sent my clothes to Veronica & Julieth...who are 2 staff people here that work in the kitchens of the team house when there are teams.  If there is anything that doesn't fit them or that they do not want, they will make sure it gets to someone who does.  We also sent everything (food-wise) to them as well...they were very grateful to get it!  We spent quite a bit of today making sure all of the "extras" in the apartment went somewhere.  Kimberly had instructed us to get her coffee pot to Felipe - done.  I took my tennis shoes and sandals to Invisible (Pamela) as promised.  It's rare to find someone with the same size feet as me down here.

Bob spent the morning at the fish farm.  They rounded up quite a few tilapia and butchered them (they call it "harvesting them") so that there would be a bunch available for the kitchens.  The fish farm was started last year and has been going well!
Bob & the "Sassy Fish"


We headed to the school to get a few pictures.  I'm including 2 pictures with boys from the past.  First is Kevin.  Kevin is a special needs boy who got the chicken pox 3 years ago.  Because he didn't quite understand me explaining to the children that you cannot scratch the pox, he scratched so much and so often that many of his pox got infected severely.  He was in the clinic that year much longer than any other child with the chicken pox.
LoriAnn & Kevin
Then there's Tony...who's just a little sweetie!  Two years ago, I watched after him in the clinic when he had his ear ripped off on the trampoline.  (You'd have to go back to that blog to read about it).  Here's Tony today:
LoriAnn & Tony
After serving the little girls lunch, Alina, Bob & I went to the tienda for one last lunch at Emmanuel.  Then, at Doris' request, we headed to the toddler house to get pictures of her older sisters (Lourdes & Wendy) and their babies.  We came back to pack before I headed to the medium girls' house for their ensenanza (Bible study).  We had supper with the little girls, did bath time and then went to church.  I began Date #7 for Alina & my Secret Keeper girls group, but Doris knocked on the door and came in & started crying.  She felt horrible that I was leaving "so quickly".  I spent a bit of time with Doris before she was called in for the night.  I've been here 4 weeks & 2 days...longer than ever before, but yet it doesn't seem like it.

Tuesday, August 20, 2013

A Special Supper for the Big Girls

This morning began with devotions, circle and breakfast once again.  What was special about this morning was my chat with Karelia and how difficult it can sometimes be watching and caring for these little ones.  Some of them come from such broken homes and act out in ways that have always been acceptable from where they came.  The staff here want the children to be able to distinguish between good and bad behavior, between good & bad actions, between good and bad language, etc.  Your own children know you and know your expectations, but Emmanuel is constantly receiving new children...and it takes time for them to learn that some of the practices (i.e. abuses) that they experience with their parents and family at home are not acceptable.  It takes time, patience, and love...which makes it hard work, because it's a constant ongoing process with each new child that comes in...but it's worth it!  Karelia and I chatted a bit about our own children and how we handle problems with them in our own homes, and then how it's different when the child is not your own.

Once again when I took the little girls to school, Leslie was not able to teach.  I'll plan to teach today and tomorrow yet, right up until I leave.  I was glad to only have 3 classes today because I'm still pretty congested and was slightly feverish yet.  I did take an ibuprofen this morning.  After my 3 classes, I headed back to the apartment to rest for a bit, to try to get rid of the fever (it didn't work).  Alina used the remainder of the morning to catch up on 4 days of journaling. We had lunch with the little girls and then went to Emmanuel's gift shop to purchase the children's CD of songs for Jen, my cousin who asked Andres to "facebook me" and ask for a CD.

After buying the CD, Alina & I headed to the Casita to help Elizabeth with her special needs class and then we headed back to the house a bit to drop our purchases off before going to the little girls' house once again for supper and to give baths.  This afternoon Bob worked extremely hard to prepare a supper for the "en cargadas" (big girls in charge) of the little girls' house.  He made barbecue chicken, cole slaw, potatoes, and bread.  It was ALL a big hit!  Elizabeth & Karelia joined us, and Bob made enough for Karelia to take back to her husband (Robert) and her kids...she wouldn't have to make supper...she was so thankful!

Bob with the Big Girls, Elizabeth & Karelia

Monday, August 19, 2013

A Night with Doris

I woke up this morning feeling a cold coming on.  I was slightly feverish...it's been going around the little girls' house and even Elizabeth & Karelia  have gotten it prior to me.  I still woke to have my devotional time with God, and then Bob woke so we could do our morning devotions together.  I headed to the little girls' house once again at 6am and helped with circle and breakfast before walking the girls to school.  Leslie is a volunteer who was planning on taking over my reading classes at the school, but she met me there to let me know that the need was greater at the toddler house and was wondering if I would take the classes for the day.  Since I had originally planned to teach through Wednesday, it wasn't really a problem...but it would mean that I most likely wouldn't get through the Narnia book with all of the notes and preparations for whichever teacher would take over the classes.

During a break in the morning between classes, I headed back to the apartment to heat up some white rice that Bob had made the night before and put the last of the fruit salsa (from David & Lydia's supper last week) into the rice, hoping that the "extra Vitamin C" would kick this oncoming cold a little faster than the others in my small girls' house had been suffering through it. I headed back to school to finish up classes and then took the girls back to their house for lunch.  They didn't have classes in the afternoon, due to marching practice (the Honduras Independence Day is coming up in September) so Bob, Rebecca and I headed into Guaimaca to purchase some items.  Bob & I wanted to get food for tomorrow's dinner that we'd be cooking for my big girls who work/live in the little girls' house, and we'd also make extras for Karelia & her family.  Rebecca hadn't yet gotten the opportunity to get into town, so she needed to stock up on some personal foods.  We stopped by Glenda's place.  I've known her since my first year here (and since there had only been 1 supermarket in town).  I love to support individuals trying to make a living, so I try to buy various fruits & veggies from her on each trip in...she's also so welcoming and kind...more personalized service!

Glenda, Bob & LoriAnn
We headed to the older of the supermarkets first, then to the bus station just to check on times that the bus for Tegucigalpa leaves in the morning.  We'll be trying to catch the 7am bus to Teguc on Thursday so that we can get to the airport to head home on time.  After the bus station, we headed to the newer supermarket and then to the TIGO store.  TIGO is one of the 2 major phone/wireless/internet companies here in Honduras.  It's interesting how the first 2 years I was here, TIGO worked really well at Emmanuel...then the following 3 years, it was the CLARO company, and now it's back to TIGO again.  Rebecca needed to get a modem, which comes on a USB stick and then you just pay for a month's plan.  You do need to be careful though with how much GB you're using, because you are limited.  It's a pre-paid plan, kind of like a Tracfone, but with modem/internet service.  We headed to a couple of bakeries, but unfortunately they did not have the type of bread Bob was looking for, so he'd have to make his own for supper tomorrow.  Glenda had held on to our purchases, so we made one last stop at her place before walking back to Emmanuel to say our goodbyes and "until next year".

I got back just in time to help clean up for supper and to give baths.  After bathtime, Lorraine (from the CA group) came over to have Doris paint her toenails.  We had a very  nice conversation while she was getting her nails painted.  I'll be looking her up on facebook!  Doris insisted on painting my toenails afterwards.  I let her.  She had been taught by a sister of one of the staff her and has become quite good at it.  I'll post a picture of my nails below, but please if you look at the picture...focus on her talent and not my "dry, cracked missionary feet".

For an hour or so after she painted my nails, we headed to her room and just spent time chatting about her and how difficult life outside of Emmanuel will be (should she decide in the near future to leave...she is 21 years old and does have the option).  We talked about her sisters who are currently here at Emmanuel with their babies.  And we just spent some precious time together before I'd be leaving on Thursday.  I really do like these moments with her, when all the other little ones are sleeping and we can just chat about things that are important to her - as a young adult.  I came home around 7:30pm and since I had been slightly feverish and congested all day, headed to bed to rest.  Please keep my health in your prayers as I'd like to finish these last few days strong and as healthy as possible.

Doris' Gift to Me...Painting my Nails

Sunday, August 18, 2013

That Rat!!!

This morning I decided to sleep in for an extra hour or two since my morning didn't "officially" start until 8:00am (rather than 6am every other day).  When I did wake up, around 5:00, I found that there was NO RAT caught in the trap.  Bob had put peanut butter and some granola on the trap (which looks like a super-sized mouse trap) to lure the rat.  When I looked around the apartment, I deduced that the rat knows about these traps somehow...and here's why:
  1. the rat left a dropping on top of the container of peanut butter - as if to say, "I don't need just a little peanut butter on your rat trap when I know where the big jar of peanut butter is!"
  2. the rat tore a hole in the bag of granola overnight (This bag was placed on top of the refrigerator by Kimberly before she left, thinking that the rat could not get up there) - well either the rat is a rope climber (climbing the water hose that goes from bottom to top in back of the refrig for making ice) or the rat is trying to remind us that he is a distant cousin to the flying squirrel.
  3. the rat left a dropping in the doorway of our bedroom - as if to say, "I know where you sleep!"
I'm hoping to be able to catch this rat (and all of its relatives) soon!  After being disgusted by not having caught it yet, I made a pot of coffee and then sat down to have my devotional time with God.  It wasn't long before Bob came out for us to do our couple's devotion.  After that, it was time to get Alina up & get ready for church.

We had invited Michell to church with us and although she said she wanted to go, when Alina went up to get her, she had changed her mind.  Bob saved us a spot in church and we listened to the message given by the Ohio group pastor.  He asked us if the Spirit had our heart?  I'll let your mind dwell on that a while before moving on to the rest of my day...the question is NOT 'Will you give your heart to Jesus?' but 'Have you already given it, 100%, wholly & completely?'

Bob, Alina, Michell & LoriAnn
After church we changed clothes and then took Michell to the store where we bought her lunch.  Back in May, Alina & I had done a Secret Keeper Girl Mommy Daughter Date where Alina went on a shopping spree.  She had $20 to spend at the Fox River Mall and had to get 3 items with that money, each item coming from a different store and only 30 minutes in which to complete this shopping spree...and one more twist...her purchases were to go to a girl here at Orphanage Emmanuel - she chose Michell.  The purpose of the shopping spree was to teach her about mean girls, since eventually she'd be running from store to store and running out of patience as she looked to complete the task.  So today was all about giving Michell these items over lunch.  Michell is a very quiet, shy girl; but has been taking care of Alina (like a big sister would) while Alina's been down here this year.

Michell & Alina

After lunch, Alina spent the rest of the day with the medium girls out in the yards and playing soccer.  I joined them for a bit of the afternoon/evening, and Bob came out later in the evening to play some soccer as well.  He even scored TWO goals on Alina!!!

At the end of the night when we came back to the apartment, Bob and Alina went looking for critters outside and THAT is when it happened...I was sitting at the kitchen table doing a word search, and the rat decided to "play" with me.  First it came out from the ceiling and then headed back up through the hole...TWICE!  I thought it'd be gone for a while, but then the next thing I know it's walking along the brick wall from the microwave to the stove in plain view!  I was pretty freaked out.  I could hear Bob and Alina outside, so called for Bob to come inside.  He couldn't find the rat, but loaded the trap up with more peanut butter and granola and put it directly underneath that hole in the ceiling.  We're hoping to catch something by morning.  YUCK!!!